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SUFFOCATION Ladies Means They feel Smothered!!

Keep your dependence and independence in balance. Tell and show your partner how much you need him, but don't cling, as that can make your partner feel trapped.

What do you want?
If you want him to be a man…expect that he has testosterone running through his veins and will act like a man. This doesn’t mean we don’t want him to be sensitive sometimes but GET REAL…do you really want him to be sensitive all the time?  Ultimately we as women are wired that way…we are attracted to the things we don’t have, so stop asking them to be more like us or we lose the reason we are attracted to them in first place.

Girl Talk - Guy Answers

LETS TALK!!!!

Ladies get ready — this statement is the KISS of DEATH if you are wanting to get anywhere with a man!

Never start a conversation with “Let’s Talk”…it signals to a man..... “you are in trouble”.... even if you just need to chat.  State what is on your mind and give him time to respond. His response will most likely come in the form of a simple solution. It may not be the solution you were after, but that is how he is wired. Here is the game plan…”Talk time”….Now from him…”Simple Solution”  DONE!  End of discussion.

Be aware that men generally feel overwhelmed by emotion more than women do. If he's angry or tearful, half an hour's 'unflooding' time to himself will help get his balance back and make him more able to interact positively with you.

Just The Facts

What you are attracting is a reflection of YOU!

Remember that boredom typically covers up anger. If you feel bored with him, ask yourself what you're angry about.

GUY’s are SIMPLE

Men want standards…Now get some!  State your boundaries and stick with them.  End of discussion, they will meet you there if you let him know who you are and what you want.

Quite trying to complicate or analyze it. Most of all, ladies tend to fall in to the fairytale mentality.  Its important to remember not to be disillusioned by your fantasy of what you want some one to be and who they really are.  they may be a fantastic person, but just not the perfect person for you.  So if you are drawing types that aren't meeting your needs, it may be time to go within and understand the part of you that may be projecting those same characteristics unknowingly.

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